How to move on

The hardest part of moving on is acceptance. Acceptance that the person you have loved and once exclusively dating is gone.  You can dry all your tears and cry a river every night but he/she will never come back.  Accept it that you have done everything to save the relationship but nothing works better than split up.  That is why when you are in the relationship you should do everything to make it work so that when the terminal stage of relationship calls for a park,  there is no ifs and what ifs.
Steps on acceptance:
1)  Be honest to your self. Accept that in every relationship failed is a two way street.  Somewhere along the way you have done a lot of failure as the other half.
2)  Write a letter and throw it.  Write everything you wanted to say to your ex and read it over and over again and then throw it.
3)  Cry a lot.  If you have to shed the tears for a day or a month then do it.  Promise to yourself that there would be a one last cry.
4)  Accept that everything happens for a reason.  He/she will not be meant for you.
5)  No contact and if he/she tries to contact you and you feel you are not ready to talk to him/her, then control yourself to prevent you to  go over the same process again.  Remember, if you wanted to start and repeat from the number one, then it is your choice.